(Source: herphany, via glittergoldandlace)

1. Accept that you can’t control everything within your environment. 

2. Reflect on the amazing fun times and successes within your life rather than dwell on failures. 

3. Don’t think that you know it all. Not every situation has the same outcome. Keep an open mind. 

4. Learn to laugh at yourself. 

5. You know the difference between how you are treated and how you should be treated. When those two are far apart, it’s time to go. 

(Source: alicejxx)

There is nothing comparable as the feeling of being completely in love with another. 

(Source: alicejxx)

Last night was another amazing late night with Trenton. His set at SoundBar was amazing, he was so into it and there was consistent energy.

I met one of his friends who says it takes a special kind of girl to be able to take all of this in and date a DJ. He says that most girls say they are ok with it but then are constantly nagging whilst at an event for attention from their boyfriend and “why aren’t you paying attention to me every 2 seconds while we are out?” They get jealous of the girls, the music, the scene, anything that isn’t them. I jokingly replied that I’ve dated band guys so that’s a lot worse to deal with and dating Trenton is just so easy to begin with.

I don’t understand why girls don’t look at what they are getting when they begin dating someone or even before. There are many time consuming occupations and some women need to learn patience and grace.

I love my boyfriend more than anything and want to support him with any project he’s working on. I get enough attention any other time so I would never be that nagging girl while we are out and he’s working and networking. Not a good look!

When you’re with someone, support whatever positivity makes them happy.

At SoundBar. Tumblr’ing in the bathroom and hiding from guys with rape eyes while I wait for the bf to get here & DJ. Such. Is. Life.

Fireworks and the Foo Fighters at Bamboozle 2012 (by hxcxoxo)

When someone says to me that one of my actions is something that they ‘have to deal with’, I feel immediately guilty. My mind begins racing through everything I do and what could be interpreted as irrational and I feel so bad. I have little to no control over that majority of my mood swings and that only further frustrates me. I’m not trying to make an excuse as to why I do certain things at all because I really could not tell you the reasoning behind some of it. I just wish it didn’t happen at all. But everyone has flaws like that, I suppose.

(Source: alicejxx)

So last night, running into a guy I used to see. Weird. I hate that no matter if he hasn’t talked to me in 2 weeks or 5 months, he still tries to flirt with me like everything is fine and we can pick back up where we left off. It makes me so uncomfortable. The whole intention of why we had gotten together in the first place weren’t genuine. One of his best friends had blantantly told him, ‘I’ve like this girl for over a year, don’t talk to her or ask her out.’ And he did just that. Even confronting him with the facts, he isn’t bothered by the fact that he had been a shitty friend, he seemed proud of it actually. And that’s where I have a huge problem. I don’t enjoy feeling like a trophy or prize that is snatched up as a bragging right. He wasn’t what I had wanted anyway.

(Source: alicejxx)

Bracelet #2 from NYC

New bracelet from NYC